What is a man? From ages, man has been considered as the most intelligent of the species, nothing seems to be impossible for a man. Man has created wonders. But with all these, man is also known for its complicated nature. The man, who looks so graceful when we compare it with other species, suddenly looks very ugly when we unfold the deepest region.
To make myself clearer, I would like to tell u a real story...................................
PART-I (BriefHistory……….)
Mahesh was the eldest amongst his five brothers. Those five brothers were famous as the Panch Pandavas in the village. There were stories told about them, their unity was an example for the other people. Days passed, and they grew up, Mahesh, who was the eldest of all, got a lowly paid job outside. Suddenly, his heart cried for his beloved brothers but he has no ways, he has to join the job. Lastly, with a broken heart and with mixed feelings, he parted with his brothers and went to join the job. So in this way, in the Panch Pandavas group, the eldest son Mahesh left and now he was replaced with Jitesh who was next to him. Now the whole responsibilities of an elder brother came to Jitesh’s shoulders as he has to shield and protect his younger brothers.Jitesh was a bright student with an introvert personality. He was very shy so he devoted himself to the studies only. Days passed and that day came, for which Jitesh was anxiously waited for his life. He cleared the civil services examination. His hard work paid off and he joined at a higher administrative post.
From here the things stated changing slowly……………………..
PART-II
Jitesh after joining the service became a bit proudy.He came in the grip of that personality, which always rules a man. First, he started considering himself as the Most Intelligent person and secondly, as the most efficient of all, as he was well paid off then his elder brother Mahesh. He came in the clutches of False Superiority Complex. But, he was not all that bad. He still cared for his brothers and in turn he was also responded more positively by his younger brothers. All these made Mahesh feel neglected and unwanted. Gradually, he lost his position and respect in the eyes of his younger brothers.
THIS PROVES THAT MONEY IS THE ULTIMATE GLUE THAT BINDS A RELATION.
Time passed and Mahesh got married. He got a lovely wife ‘Parvati” who was very caring and supportive. She gave birth to three children; the eldest was named as Dinesh. Mahesh’s family remained outside during this time and in the meanwhile Jitesh, fell in love with a girl named ‘Rakhi” Those were the colorful days, but they couldn’t last long. Jitesh could never express his inner feelings to Rakhi and one fine day she left him.Jitesh felt dejected, his heart cried heavily. But there was nothing he could do and the things slipped from his hand like sand. This incident made him more introvert and pushed him inside a shell and he never married again.
TRUE EXPRESSION OF LOVE IN TIME IS VERY ESSENTIAL
PART-III
Time passed and Durgesh, who was next to Jitesh,got a mediocre job and got married to a woman outside his caste whose name was ‘Sunita’.Sunita being from a lower caste ,always suffered from this Caste complex. She always nursed the feeling that she is from a lower caste and she has to come out of this by any means. So she started bitching Mahesh’s wife in his absence to gain a higher position in repect.Jitesh was out of this race as he never married. Meanwhile, Rupesh who was next to Durgesh also got an average job and married to a village girl named Kalawati .Rupesh was the simplest of the all brothers and he generally maintained a low profile. Time passed and the youngest brother also grew up. His name was Suresh and the interesting thing was he was younger to his eldest brother Mahesh by 25 years. Suresh was the most joyous and tactful amongst his other brothers. He was not good at studies but he managed to get a decent job. He was also famous amongst his brothers for his joyous and good nature.
THE MOST COMPLEX RELATIONSHIPS ARE THEY THEMSELVES
PART-IV
Sunita , being a very skilled talker, soon took charge of the whole family. By her sugar coated talks, she won the heart of everyone in the family. But her deepest feelings were stuck in like a venomous snake. To dethrone the eldest woman, Parvati (wife of Mahesh) she decided to gain majority and this was possible only when the youngest person Suresh marries a girl of her choice. So she started looking for Suresh’s bride and soon she succeeded also. She chose Rinki who was her best friend as Suresh’s future life partner. Suresh soon got married to Rinki.
IF WE DIG A WELL FOR OTHERS, WE OURSELVES MAY FALL INTO IT
PART-V
Rinki after getting a husband like Suresh, felt very happy. She thanked her friend Sunita deeply for this. Time passed and with time, relations also changes.Rinki also started hating the idea the despite of her husband’s better income, she and her husband are under Sunita and family.
Rinki was also a skilled talker like Sunita and she has all the skills like Sunita so she started strengthening her hold on her husband, Suresh. At the same time, she started neglecting Sunita also .Rink’s behavior started killing sunita.She understood her mistake but that also didn’t taught her any lesson as GOOD TEACHINGS SELDOME AFFECTS THICK SKINNED PEOPLE. So whenever they met they smiled overtly and talked nicely but both were aware of the poisons they were breeding in.
PART-VI
Time passed and Jitesh retired and with this his actual sufferings started. With his retirement money , he build a house for himself and started living –in .As he was not married ,he passed through the remotest phase of his life .Transition to disenchantment made him depressed. His so called beloved brothers started neglecting him as he was not able to spend money extravagantly on them. Loss of social role, loss of identity, loss of social contacts, loss of financial security and loss of power and prestige pushed Jitesh to the darkest well of depression. He suffered from Dementia also The relatives took advantage of his mental situation .They also took possession of the house which Jitesh built for his final days.Jitesh finally understood that his superiority complex was false and baseless. His whole principles were proved wrong, Jitesh could not took this further and one fine day he was found dead in a municipality hospital
His younger brothers, who were once very fond of him, openly shed some crocodile tears and secretly took his dead body in an ambassador’s luggage compartment to bid a last farewell to him
THE SAGA OF A MAN RELATIONSHIP IS VERY COMPLEX AND WE NEVER REALISES THE FACTS AT THAT PARTICULAR TIME.BUT WHENEVER WE WANT TO PEN IT DOWN WE UNDERSTANDS HOW UGLY IT WAS.THIS WAS THE STORY IN BRIEF AND TO KNOW IN DETAILS YOU CAN READ MY BOOK “THE SAGA OF MODERN PANDAVAS”
Sunday, May 3, 2009
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